permissions and kinks;

[heiressing]

Short version:

• Pansexual demiromantic.
• Kinky on occasion and switch as fuck.
• As shipping goes: yes to Margaery, probably to the majority of women she's not related to, let's talk regarding most of the guys.

Regarding kinks: 

• Yes: vaginal sex, oral sex (giving and receiving), bondage/BDSM, sensory deprivation, teasing, honor bondage, tribbing, orgasm delay/denial, public sex, role reversal, spanking, marking, lingerie, body worship
• Maybe: anal sex, dress-up, toys, biting, punishment/discipline
• No: dub/non-con, whipping, watersports/bathroom kinks, vore, sounding, humiliation, bloodplay, ageplay, caning

Also:

• She's experienced and unashamed of that; she grew up in a fairly permissive environment and therefore feels no shame about sexual preferences or activities.
• When she tops, she really tops.  When she subs, she really subs.  When that's not the arrangement, fine, but she gets into it.
• She's something of a tease, and she doesn't mind being teased herself as long as it ends well.

Ask if something isn't listed.

Regarding partners and relationships:

• Arianne is pansexual demiromantic.  She's attracted to lots of people but doesn't get close to them without a lot of doing.
• She can and does use sex as a weapon, but she doesn't really do hatesex or anything like that.  She toys with people, but there's a certain sort of fondness involved most of the time even then.
• She doesn't have to use sex as a weapon, though.   Sometimes it's just casual fun.  She doesn't have qualms about that.
• Arianne is a switch, according to the mood, her partner's preferences, and the situation.

Regarding shipping:

• Instant yes (in canon): ladies.
• Negotiable (in canon): provided the situation is reasonably drawn, many things could be considered.  Some of the guys.
• "Types" (particularly for cross-canon): as said, she's a little bit manipulative and very sensual, so I'm up to writing her with a lot of different folks, honestly.

Ask if you're not sure.

To clarify, I have read through A Dance With Dragons, but in this particular AU verse that doesn't particularly matter.