heiressing | permissions and kinks;

Short version:

Pansexual demiromantic.
Kinky on occasion and switch as fuck.
As shipping goes: yes to Margaery, probably to the majority of women she's not related to, let's talk regarding most of the guys.

Regarding kinks:

Yes: vaginal sex, oral sex (giving and receiving), bondage/BDSM, sensory deprivation, teasing, honor bondage, tribbing, orgasm delay/denial, public sex, role reversal, spanking, marking, lingerie, body worship
Maybe: anal sex, dress-up, toys, biting, punishment/discipline
No: dub/non-con, whipping, watersports/bathroom kinks, vore, sounding, humiliation, bloodplay, ageplay, caning

Also:

She's experienced and unashamed of that; she grew up in a fairly permissive environment and therefore feels no shame about sexual preferences or activities.
When she tops, she really tops. When she subs, she really subs. When that's not the arrangement, fine, but she gets into it.
She's something of a tease, and she doesn't mind being teased herself as long as it ends well.

Ask if something isn't listed.

Regarding partners and relationships:

Arianne is pansexual demiromantic. She's attracted to lots of people but doesn't get close to them without a lot of doing.
She can and does use sex as a weapon, but she doesn't really do hatesex or anything like that. She toys with people, but there's a certain sort of fondness involved most of the time even then.
She doesn't have to use sex as a weapon, though. Sometimes it's just casual fun. She doesn't have qualms about that.
Arianne is a switch, according to the mood, her partner's preferences, and the situation.

Regarding shipping:

Instant yes (in canon): ladies.
Negotiable (in canon): provided the situation is reasonably drawn, many things could be considered. Some of the guys.
"Types" (particularly for cross-canon): as said, she's a little bit manipulative and very sensual, so I'm up to writing her with a lot of different folks, honestly.

Ask if you're not sure.

To clarify, I have read through A Dance With Dragons, but in this particular AU verse that doesn't particularly matter.

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